Do you think its ok to be friends with a guy you meet on the internet even though your married?

All people ever hear about is the internet stories with the bad endings. 20 yrs ago when I was in grade school we were encouraged by our school teachers to have pen pals, in fact we even got time in cl to write to them. How is this any different?? Kudo's to you and your husband for having a wonderful relationship with openness & trust. Have a great visit with your internet friend, your husband is right, don't worry about what others say, you know in your heart if what you've done is right for you.